When I blogged that, I was probably reeling a bit from learning that people are still looting burial grounds and using web sites like eBay to sell the items… so I was looking for a way to tell that story with some relevant experience. I agree that my choice of that highway marker to make my point was a bit of a stretch.

I’ll keep my eyes open for better examples.

People must be very careful to not cover things up, but equally careful that we not use our standards to judge peoples of the past or other cultures. In doing so, we miss opportunities to understand.

I agree completely without reservation that it would be appropriate to remind people that the mounds are cemeteries. I have seen that posted in several locations. However, you stated you needed to “reread” the words after another experience. I can give you heartfelt assurances that I have indeed used the word “found” in referring to white cemeteries of historical significance. (I have also told my children rural cemeteries can be found everywhere.)

I have, with strong emotions, discussed the atrocities of the past with my children, but I think it is extremely important to remember that if people “find” slights in everything, the bigger picture becomes blurred as those people become tuned out.

I enjoyed your site. I applaud your efforts and appreciate the information about Sandy lake. I too intend to go to the Ft. Snelling event and have for some time. However, on the one interpretation where you feel that “one could easily interpret” permission to loot the mounds, I must respectfully disagree. I have seen that sign you spoke of, and not once, considered it permission to dishonor the remains. In fact, I took it as a reminder, stated or not, that the area is in fact, an honored place for Native Americans. I fully feel it is a simple acknowledgment that there are some that our ancestors have not managed to destroy.

I want you to know that there are people that care and want to remember and honor your people and their past. However, speaking from personal experience, it is important to not find hurts where they are not because, sadly, there is plenty that are already there and in doing so, the pain will consume you. Your path is one of great importance. Please do not lose sight of it.